Qualification & Comfort

One major mistake that I have been making lately is that I don’t qualify and build comfort with my girls before I number close them. This results in me building attraction, but then them going back and thinking “I might as well have been any girl.” Even though they are attracted to me, they don’t feel that I like them for who they are. Because of this, they feel like I am just out there trying to hookup with anyone that crosses my path.

While attraction doesn’t take to long (3-5 minutes) with some DHV using Push/Pull and Cocky Funny, qualification and comfort/rapport take much longer (15-25 minutes into the set). I need to focus on qualifying and building comfort with my chicks.

(Examples: RSFReb, SproulMol, HenLaur)

February 14, 2006. Self-Analysis.